This morning in our local town of Dereham, there was a British Legion parade to the war memorial, to show respect and remembrance to the soldiers who have fallen in many wars. Ever since we have lived in Norfolk, Julie and I have played our part by arranging a light lunch after the ceremony. We used to to this in Julie’s workplace, the local bank, but she has moved from that branch now, so we found another venue.
The Meeting Point is a community resource, used for many meetings and occasions, as well as celebrations. We were kindly offered the use of the main room and serving kitchen, free of charge. From her own funds, Julie buys the makings of a ham and cheese ploughman’s lunch, as well as cakes, tea and coffee, and fruit juice. In previous years, we have had as many as forty attendees, including some local armed services personnel, the town Mayor, and the local Vicar too.
This year, numbers were down. Some of the old soldiers have sadly passed away, and others were too ill to come along. But we were up and about early, driving to the Meeting Point to prepare the lunch, and lay out the room. Everyone started to arrive just after 11:15, and as Julie busied herself with serving the food, I took charge of drinks through the serving hatch. It all went very well, and everyone who attended was most appreciative. One made a short speech thanking us both, and Julie was presented with an attractive bunch of flowers. After they had left, we cleared up and tidied the hall, ready for the next event.
Neither of us have ever been in the armed forces, but both our fathers served in WW2.
Once a year, for a few hours, and a little money spent, we think it is the least we can do.
What a lovely thing for you both to do. We owe our soldiers (both past and present)a huge debt of gratitude. They deserve our respect and help. It is sobering for me to remember that in WW1 and 2, millions of people much younger than myself gave their lives, or suffered terrible injuries(both physical and mental), to make our country free and save lives. All respect to them all.
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Thanks very much, Maddy. Not only did my Dad serve as a regular soldier, my Mum endured the Blitz in London. She was 15 when the war began, and 21 when it ended. All of that living less than half a mile from Tower Bridge, and terrified of the constant bombing. I cannot even begin to imagine the horrors.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Incredible to realise what that generation went through. My granddad and his best mate served in WW2. Grandad very rarely spoke about it, but his best mate would often share stories of what they went through, and they were horrific and so sad.
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So many men came back mentally scarred, and small wonder. My Dad was lucky. He had been in the army since 1936, and in 1940, he was sent to India, where he remained until the end of the war. By contrast, his brother (also a regular) was sent to fight the Japanese in Burma, in 1942. He was wounded and captured, and endured awful treatment as a POW.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Great stuff Pete, makes me realise I need to do more in thanks to our veterans.
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It is mainly driven by Julie’s desire to keep paying respect to her Dad, who would love to have known we were doing this. I help out where I can.
It takes around 5 hours of our time, a couple of phone calls, and about £50 in groceries. Not too bad, once a year. Maybe you could arrange one where you live?
Best wishes, Pete.
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Maybe, I actually have an idea for something I’d like to do. If I pull it off, you’ll know about it. Good on you and Julie.
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This is highly commendable of you. Patriotism seems to be waning here in the States, and veterans don’t get the respect they deserve.
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Thanks, David. I’m not that patriotic myself, to be honest. However, I do have a lot of time for old soldiers.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I adnire the efforts you and your wife put in for such a memorable and deserving day. You are both very kind. It’s the small moments that truly count.
” To live in Hearts we leave behind is not to die..the living owe it those who no longer speak to tell them their story”.
Sincerely Sonea
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Thanks very much, Sonea. As the old soldiers pass on, it is up to us to keep those memories alive indeed.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Nice guys. The act if remembrance must go on in the next generation and the next and the…………
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It has to be passed down the generations. If only to try to stop it happening again.
Thanks for reading and commenting.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Precisely
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Kudos!
Warmest regards, Theo
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Thanks, Theo.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Bravo to you and Julie, Pete. You’re both class acts!🤗
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Thanks, Kim. Despite ‘life’ getting on top of us at times, it is nice to do something for others now and again.
Best wishes, Pete.
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What a lovely gesture from both of you Julie and Pete 🙂
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Thanks, Arlene. This is the fifth year we have done this, and we hope to be able to continue now we have found this new venue.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thank you Pete and Julie, although you feel this is only a small contribution it will mean so much to many.
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Cheers, Bobby. The small contributions can sometimes be just as important, I agree.
Take care old friend, Pete.
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That is such a good thing to do, Pete. Really wonderful. You probably don’t know how appreciative people are, veterans and citizens. Hats off to you and Julie.
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They do look forward to it every year. A light meal, and the chance to chat to their friends after the parade. Thanks, Jennie, we think it’s a good thing to do too.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Wonderful! Best to you, Pete.
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What a lovely thing to do.
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Many thanks for your kind comment, Eileen.
Best wishes Pete.
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Proud of you both.
Regards Jim.
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Thanks, Jim. Hope all’s well, old friend.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Very sweet of you both. I’m sure it means a lot to those veterans.
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They are very appreciative, Susanne, it has to be said.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Hats off to you and Julie!!
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Thanks, GP. This is the fifth year we have done it, and we hope to continue.
Best wishes, Pete.
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At the last fundraiser for veterans, I was startled to see that they were all my age! They had served In Viet Nam. Very few veterans are left from WWII around here.
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Thanks, Elizabeth. We had a couple of WW2 veterans there today, though of course, they were very old. We also had some widows, and others who had served in the forces since the second war. I am 65, and I was one of the youngest men there!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Did the British get involved in Viet Nam at all?
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Not ‘officially’. The Australians sent troops, but no British soldiers were ever there. None that we knew about at least.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I knew about the Australians, but not about British. Thanks for the clarification.
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What a lovely thing to do!
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Thanks, Ros. It is sad to think that if we didn’t do this, then nobody else would be bothered to.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good on you
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Thanks, Sue. It is something we like to do,
Best wishes, Pete.
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nice!
as a veteran
there’s much
i wish
not to remember 🙂
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Thanks for your comment. I think we are remembering the people, rather than the events.
But I can hopefully understand why there are many things that you would sooner not have as memories.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good Job Pete & Julie.
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Thanks, FR. Next year, it is actually on a Sunday.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Well done both of you, you’re so kind.
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Thanks, Gilly. It’s a step up from just buying a poppy I suppose, but we enjoy it. In a country location, it feels more important to try to be part of the community too.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Hats off to you Pete. The best I could do was respect the 2 minutes of silence as I listened to BBC radio.
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Cheers, Eddy. If not for Julie, I would probably be doing something similar to you. I might watch the ceremony tomorrow morning on TV though.
Best wishes, Pete.
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A wonderful thing to do, Pete. Congratulations to you both. I am busy writing a book of short stories based on my mother’s memories of WWII.
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Thanks, Robbie. That sounds like a great project, and a fine tribute to your Mum for the future.
Sadly, my Mum’s wartime memories were mostly of being bombed during The Blitz in London, followed by being terrified of the V1 and V2 flying bombs later.
But she managed to lighten the mood sometimes, by dancing and flirting with American soldiers! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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It would be a gesture appreciated by all members of the armed forces Pete.
Hugs
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Thanks, David. Julie gets a lot from doing it, and I am happy to help too.
Best wishes, Pete
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Good effort Pete, nice gesture.
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Cheers, Paul. It has been a regular feature of life since we moved here, and Julie might even be joining the BL soon, to help with their admin tasks.
Love to you and Debbie. x
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Nice Pete. Nice indeed. Regards
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Thanks, Frank. Good to give something back.
Best wishes, Pete.
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