Whenever I talk to friends and family, they eventually ask me what, if anything, I miss about no longer living in London. When I first moved here, it was such a relief to get away from it all, that I used to reply that there was nothing that I missed at all. This is not true of course. You cannot spend sixty years in the city of your birth, without regretting a few things left behind. I have been given to reflection lately, and thought of a few things that I really do miss, so here they are.
The view from Waterloo Bridge
This is possibly the best aspect of the river in London. All the ‘best bits’ are visible from this bridge, though in itself, it is an unattractive, concrete monstrosity. It does nonetheless provide the perfect viewing platform for anyone interested in the sights of London. They are not all there. There is no view of Buckingham Palace, or the parks, and some may argue that the real London, of markets, housing estates, and busy arterial roads, is not represented. It doesn’t matter. Standing on this bridge, day or night, can only ever leave you feeling uplifted, and glad, at least for a short while, to be a Londoner.
Bar Italia, Soho
This coffee bar, at the heart of one of London’s busiest, and buzziest districts, is an institution that has endured the invasion of Starbucks and Costa. After a late night out in the capital, or a visit to Ronnie Scott’s jazz club opposite, there is nothing better than to grab a table outside, in any weather, and watch the busy life of Soho unfold before your eyes. Free entertainment, at least for the greatly inflated price of a double espresso. Worth every penny at 3am.
24 Hour Buses
You will always hear a lot of negative stuff written and voiced about London Transport. The reality is, that they provide an excellent bus service, that in most of London, certainly in the central area that is ‘open late’, runs for 24 hours a day. You can go for a long night out, and get home again, for less than £4 (at the last price I paid). There are issues around this, of course, though they are the fault of your fellow passengers, not the bus companies. There may be drunks on the bus, and there may also be vagrants, travelling in the warm, for the price of a ticket (or not!). Despite this, the vast majority of journies are safe, reliable, and a real reason to be glad you live in such a huge city.
Restaurants
I have written about this before, in other posts, so will not go on too long. There are almost endless restaurants in London, the choice of cuisine vast, and you know that you can always easily walk to somewhere for a good meal, often with no need to make a reservation. I don’t know many other places like that in the UK.
Walking
Elaborating on part of the above, I miss walking too. Not the kind of walking that involves donning wellington boots, and grabbing the dog’s lead though. Walking around the city, in busy periods, and quiet ones too. Despite my familiarity with London, I never failed to discover something new, when walking. An alley never seen before, or a quirky shop, that I never realised existed. You can still walk in the countryside here, but the irony is that you have to drive somewhere to do it. In the most open environment I have ever lived in, there seem to be less areas that are actually accessible, due to fences, farms, and land ownership. You can try walking about down the peaceful country lanes, though I would not recommend it, as the traffic gives little thought to pedestrians. The best option here is to head to the coast, though that involves driving, finding a car park space, and making sure that you are not going to need a toilet!
Choice
Living in a city like London, choice is something that you take for granted. Choice of restaurant, choice of bar, choice of shop. You can choose which museum, attraction, or concert to go to, and even choose how you will travel there. As a Londoner, not having these options never occurs to you. They will not be taken away, if anything, just added to. The old saying, ‘spoilt for choice’, must surely have originated in London. Living in semi-rural Norfolk, choice becomes a luxury. It is something that you have to travel for, at least as far as Norwich. Even there, it only exists on a very small level, compared to the metropolis. If anyone ever considers life away from a big city, they should contemplate the removal of choice, and how much that may affect them.
So, just six things missed, though some of them are pretty big. There are at least as many things that I don’t miss, so the balance is in there somewhere.
Those are big plusses! I suspect that list would mirror my own. I enjoy visiting cities but not living in them.
I am excited to travel to London and will be there 16-18 of July!
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They are plusses indeed, Cindy. But as I got older, they didn’t outweigh the negatives.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Delightful post, Pete. A perfect paring with yesterday’s post. I can see why you miss parts of London. Best to you, Pete.
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Thanks, Jennie. Two old posts that bring back both good and bad memories. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Posting them back to back was perfect. Best to you, Pete.
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You are so right about living in the countryside and having to drive everywhere to walk. OK I can walk from my door, but within limits: as you say walking along narrow country lanes is not safe and a lot of the so called public footpaths are muddy, impassable and badly signposted. I wish I’d made more of London when I lived in Surrey, at least to visit the museums.
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Jude, I have to say that I did make the most of my time there. Exhibitions, museums, Jazz clubs, gigs, eating out, etc. I never stopped making the most of it! But I could never have imagined being ‘old’ there. (75+)
Best wishes, Pete. x
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We’ll be making a trip to the UK late this summer and spending a week in London before scooting up to Birmingham (where my son is working for a couple years) and I’ve been sifting your posts for good ideas for our visit. I appreciate both the positives and negatives you’ve noted. Coming from Seattle, a pretty though very urban area, it good to be reminded of the realities of a big city despite what the tourist brochures are crowing. It’s also great to learn of wonderful little spots that might not make it on the itinerary of every hawaiian-shirted-tourist-with-3-uncontrolled-kids. (the wife and I may try to pass as Canadians while there 🙂 )
Thanks for the posts, Pete!
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RC, have a look at these posts for some ideas.
Have a great time!
(Can’t say too much about Birmingham, other than you’re welcome to it. : ) )
Best wishes, Pete.
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Theatres, museums,the zoo, the parks, the Tower, the churches, the restaurants and the shops.
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I lived across the road (literally) from Regent’s Park for 12 years, Julie. I made great use of it, and had a season ticket for London Zoo too. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I had a fleeting glance of London back in 2011. I was driven through by a former colleague of yours who showed me where you used to be housed in the Ambulance Service among other points of interest.
Warmest regards, Theo
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Yes, he told me about that. I might have thought of nicer places to show you, Theo. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I saw a lot from the passenger seat of an auto-as much as one can see from that vantage point. I would have preferred a tour bus or a walkng tour, but then . . .
Warmest regards, Theo
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I know… 🙂
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Thanks for sharing all of your posts, Pete – I plan to re-read them all and make a “must do” list from them!
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They do make it easy to follow my suggestions, John. If you have time of course. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I agree with all of those. We don’t go up to London as much as I thought we might when we came to Bournemouth, but when we do we inevitably arrive at Waterloo and head straight for the fantastic Southbank. If I didn’t disagree with second home ownership and had money I would have an apartment by the Thames as well as a house by the sea.
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That was always my ideal too, Janet. A smart flat close to Tower Bridge, and a quiet seaside retreat in Sussex. Maybe in another life… 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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According to Wikipedia: “London Bridge is a bridge in Lake Havasu City, Arizona. It was built in the 1830s and formerly spanned the River Thames in London, England. It was dismantled in 1967 and relocated to Arizona. The Arizona bridge is a reinforced concrete structure clad in the original masonry of the 1830s bridge.”
Visiting this bridge a few times is the closest I’ve ever come to experiencing London. I’ve heard that if you miss the bridge, your vehicle is settling at the bottom of the Colorado River.
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You were welcome to that bridge, David. It was unattractive, and the one that replaced it not much better. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I feel it all, exactly as you describe.
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Thanks, Pippa. I knew that you would.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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i frequented London when i lived in Berkshire many, many years ago. it is a beautiful city and has a lot to offer. i don’t mind visiting again. 🙂
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Yes it is indeed. But as I got older, I grew weary of so many aspects of inner city living, Wilma.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks for the other side of the story, Pete. I grew up in Houston, Texas. The population was around 500,000 when I was a kid and it’s around two and a half million now. I fondly remember cleaning the mildew off of my shoes every Sunday morning, getting ready for church. So much humidity, Jesus could easily have walked upon the sky. Haven’t lived there going on 40 years and the only thing I might be able to say I miss is an art museum or two and the train station downtown. Being a classic Hobo was one of my earliest aspirations and as soon as I could drive I would go to the train station to see what I was missing out on. Your description of the view from Waterloo Bridge is almost like being there.
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Yes, Ray Davies of The Kinks summed it up perfectly, Charlie.
Houston sounds far too hot for me! (Also too much Country Music, I expect 🙂 )
Best wishes, Pete.
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I love real country music. Comparing most of what’s being produced now is like comparing Ariana Grande to the Rolling Stones. There is nobody quite like George Jones, Buck Owens, Loretta Lynn, or Tammy Wynette. When I think of country music, that’s what I mean. Having said that, it is far too hot in Texas. Hell is 100 degrees and 99.9 % humidity. And there are far too many Texans in Texas, even if half of them are yankees now… 🙂
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Charlie, I can cope with Patsy Cline, but that’s about my limit my friend. 🙂 We never have 100 degrees here. The occasional 86 is far too much for us English! 🙂
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I miss the culture, the West End shows, the frequent trains and buses, and the East End markets as they used to be when I was a kid. I wouldn’t want to live there now, but it’s nice to go back every now and then.
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Thanks, Stevie. I have only been back once, and I found it overwhelmingly oppressive after living in the countryside. But I do miss being able to walk to virtually anything I wanted to do or see.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, there is that too. Our nearest supermarket is 5 miles away!
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Same here in Beetley. 🙂
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Reblogged this on beetleypete and commented:
Following yesterday’s reblogged post about London, here is the opposite view. Things to genuinely miss about living in such a vibrant and diverse city. I still miss them, seven years later.
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